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Resolving interpersonal conflicts at work

By

Lionel Hermans

CEO

Last updated:

1/8/2024

productivity per year, according to research by CPP Inc. For HR managers in Belgian organizations, conflict resolution is not a soft skill confined to employee relations specialists — it is a core operational competency with direct financial consequences for every team that experiences it. Left unaddressed, workplace conflicts escalate, damage team morale, drive absenteeism, and produce voluntary departures that cost between 50% and 150% of the departed employee's annual salary to replace. Addressed early and effectively, conflicts can become catalysts for stronger working relationships and a more honest, resilient organizational culture.

Interpersonal conflicts at work can reduce productivity and damage team morale well beyond the individuals directly involved in the disagreement. Often caused by misunderstandings or differing perspectives, such conflicts are inevitable in any organization where people work closely together under operational pressure. What distinguishes high-performing teams from dysfunctional ones is not the absence of conflict but the speed and effectiveness with which conflicts are identified and addressed when they arise.

The five stages of workplace conflict escalation

Latent tension: Underlying differences exist but have not yet surfaced as explicit disagreement or observable behavior change

  • Felt conflict: Emotional responses emerge — frustration, resentment, anxiety, avoidance behaviors, and reduced voluntary collaboration
  • Conflict aftermath: Either resolution with restored trust and improved working relationship, or deepened hostility escalating toward formal legal proceedings
  • Proven conflict resolution techniques for HR managers

    The most powerful conflict resolution tool available to HR managers requires no budget and no specialized technology: structured active listening. This means creating a safe, private space where each party can express their perspective fully and without interruption, asking clarifying questions rather than making assumptions or judgments, and reflecting back what has been heard before moving toward any discussion of solutions. Many workplace conflicts that appear intractable dissolve when both parties feel genuinely and completely heard for the first time — because the underlying conflict is often about feeling dismissed, undervalued, or ignored rather than about the surface issue presenting as the problem.

    Interest-based negotiation

    Structured feedback conversations as conflict prevention

    When conflicts become legal matters in Belgium

      Frequently asked questions

      A conflict is an interpersonal disagreement that can typically be resolved through management intervention or mediation without triggering formally defined legal procedures. A formal grievance — or more specifically a psychosocial risk complaint under Belgian law — activates a defined legal process involving the prevention advisor, specific timelines, and documented formal procedures. Not every conflict becomes a grievance, but unresolved conflicts frequently escalate into formal proceedings that cost significantly more time, money, and management attention than early-stage mediation would have required.

      Power imbalances require particularly careful and deliberate management. Interview both parties separately and privately before any joint conversation, ensure the employee is clearly informed of their rights including the right to access the prevention advisor for psychosocial risks, and engage an independent mediator rather than attempting to resolve the conflict through the management hierarchy that itself contains the imbalance. The employee must never feel — through word or action — that raising the conflict puts their position, performance evaluation, or future opportunities within the organization at risk.

      Yes, scheduling is one of the most common structural triggers of workplace conflict in shift-based environments across Belgium. Perceived unfairness in shift allocation, last-minute changes that disrupt personal plans without adequate notice, inconsistent application of scheduling rules between team members, and lack of transparency about how scheduling decisions are made all create ongoing resentment that accumulates and eventually manifests as interpersonal conflict. Transparent, digital scheduling systems that apply consistent rules to all employees and allow staff visibility into how decisions are made significantly reduce scheduling-related conflict at its structural source.

      Warning signs that a conflict is escalating beyond informal resolution include: requests from either party to change shift or team assignment to avoid contact with a specific colleague, reports of the conflict reaching HR through third parties not directly involved, changes in attendance patterns that coincide precisely with scheduled interactions with the other party, and explicit statements from either party that they are considering a formal complaint or consulting an external advisor. Any of these signals warrants immediate HR intervention at the structured mediation level, before the formal legal process is triggered with all its associated costs and obligations.

      Shyfter eliminates a major structural cause of workplace conflict by making shift scheduling transparent, consistently applied, and accessible to all team members. When employees can view their schedules in advance, submit availability preferences, request shift swaps, and track their own working hours through a mobile app, the scheduling disputes that escalate into broader interpersonal conflicts are significantly reduced at their source. Learn how Shyfter supports healthier workplace dynamics across Belgium.

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